Let’s face it, some of us are nerds. We can’t do it or believe until we read it.
To that end, we surveyed people in all kinds of places, and put together a list of books that will help you on your BDSM journey.
Here are some things to keep in mind when reading;
- These books are very hetronormative. However, they still came recommended for gender queer people.
- Some talk exclusively about hetro things, and some about gay/ lesbian things. That doesn’t mean the information isn’t worthwhile.
- Problematic books happen. Hopefully, in the future those books will be replaced by less problematic books.
- I have linked to the books on amazon with affiliate links. Full disclosure.
Without further ado –
Fiction Books – when you like your characters a little freaky
Non-Fiction Books – some staples and some that may surprise you
Queer Sacred Journey – pagans need queer knowledge too
Rope – OF course we have some on Rope
Leather – For the leather folks out there
Service – For those that are into service, power exchange and Master/ slave relationships.
Recommended but couldn’t find on any site
Etiquette in Alternative Sexualities
So you want to be a titleholder?
Tale of a Titleholder by Hobbit
And there it is! If you have any recommendations, let me know! Start your BDSM library, and keep talking the taboos!
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July 31, 2018
I’ve been looking to dive deeper into BDSM and these books look like my starting place, just need to work out which one I get first.
January 19, 2019
Great List–very thorough! Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns is one of my all-time favorites.